How to Please a Woman

Women have the ability to experience many different types of orgasms and also more than once.  This gives you the opportunity to give pleasure to your woman in many different ways.

Oddly many women have never experienced even one orgasm with their partner, it is a difficult satisfying a woman if you aren’t
communicating.

Below I have listed ten tips that will teach you how to bring your woman to climax, and with enough practice even experience multiple orgasms.

Step One – Be Thoughtful

You want to initiate the mood outside of the bedroom.  Do something special for her that you know she will appreciate that day.  You can buy her flowers or send her to a surprise massage appointment.  Anything really that you know she will enjoy will activate the pleasure centers in her brain which initiate the process of her entering into a romantic mood.  That means when she comes home to see you she is that much closer to wanting to get into bed and rock n’ roll.

Step Two – Make Sure She’s Relaxed

Lets face it we live in a fast paced world full of stress.  It is difficult for women with lots of stress in their lives to orgasm.  You can resolve a lot of this stress by giving her a back massage, make sure to target her neck, upper back, and shoulders.  You can also put on some soothing music, scented candles, a bottle of wine, all of these things will relax your woman and set the mood.  This may sound like a generalization but I gaurantee you in most cases this works.

Step Three – Keep Away From the Vagina

If you go for the gold right away there is no time for excitement.  You need to seduce and tease her, this means that you cannot give her what she wants right away.  You do this by kissing, caressing, even breathing on her.  You trick her into thinking you are going in for the kill and then quickly reroute your hands and run them up legs…. you get the idea.  It is the anticipation of orgasm that makes it amazing once it happens, and the longer you can keep from touching her vagina the better her final orgasm will be.

Step Four – Let Her Orgasm First

In most cases men orgasm first, this is because it easier for them to orgasm and generally not much foreplay has occured.  This is a problem because once a man orgasms he is not as excited about stimulating his woman anymore. He may want to be, but at this point your brain has started producing different chemicals and you are not able to maintain the same passion as before. Now remember that women can orgasm multiple times, so if she does first then when she is pleasuring you she will still be just as excited and will probably reach climax again just as you do becuase she is so turned on about you pleasuring her before yourself.

Step Five – How To Last Longer

It is important not to blow the lid too fast.  Don’t worry this is very common and can be controlled with practice.  I have heard from many guys that if you masturbate about an hour befor you are going to have sex you will have no problem controlling yourself during sex, now technique will require that you know when you are going to have sex so itwill not always work.  There is another option, when you feel like you are abotu to cum, you can move your hips in a circular motion like your are hoola hooping until the feeling goes away and then you can keep on going. One last thing you can do is to close your eyes and think of something that is not sexual at all, like an embarrasing moment you experienced in your 2nd grade class, that will shift your mind enough to prevent you from ejaculating prematurely.

Step Six – You Don’t Need Commercial Lubricants

Commercial lubricants are designed for people who don’t spend enough time in the foreplay arena.  If a woman is truly excited her body will produce more than enough lubrication.  If you use a substitute then you will not be able to tell the difference between the lubrication your woman is producing naturally and the commercial lubricant.  This means you wont be able to tell whether or not you are stimulating her corectlly.  So in general it is a good idea to stay away from commercial lubrication.

Step Seven – Don’t Overdo the Clitoris

This is very important!  You absolutely cannot overstimulate the clitoris.  The clitoris has a hood that folds over it for protection. For the most part women don’t even need the clitoris stimulated directly, stimulating the hood is enough.  After you stimulate the clitoris, and you will know because it will get a little bit larger you must then continue on to the g-spot.  You can stimulate the g-spot with either your hand, your penis, or even your tongue.

Step Eight – How to Find the G spot

Finding the G-spot I know is always an arduous task.  The spot feels like the roof of your mouth and is located  about two inches inside of the Vagina on the wall facing with her stomach.  There a 2 general techniques used to pleasure the G-spot.  You can either use your fingers usually two and move them up and down like your are directing someone to come towards you.  Or you can assume a love position that allows the penis to directly stimulate the G-spot.

Step Nine – Assuming the Most Effective Position

People generally enjoy many different types of sexual positions, but there are general themes.  The most effective position for a woman’s climax is definitely the reverse missionary position where the woman is on top of the man with her back facing his head.  This is proffered because in this position she can control the friction and stimulation of her G-spot.

Step Ten – She Needs Oral Sex

The most effective way to make your woman orgasm is by going down on her. It has been proven through research that oral sex is way more satisfying and pleasurable for woman than regular intercourse is.  So men developing this skill will be key in making sure that you are keeping your woman sexually satisfied.  To start out try and spell the ABC’s with your tongue, I know this sounds comical but it works.  And be careful women have 6000 nerve ending’s on their clitoris, pushing to hard or too fast could ruin the entire event.  But most importantly have an open line of communication, and feel free to experiment.  Let your woman know you are doing this and tell her to point out the things that she likes.  Don’t be shy she will be turned on by the fact that you want to please her.