In the best sexual positions series we have discussed the best sexual positions for most situations that can arise.

One special situation is for spontaneous sex, and this is something that is totally unpredictable, and thus, knowing the best sexual position in advance can make the magic of a spontaneous sexual encounter last in your memory forever.

Spontaneous Sexual Encounters

Often portrayed in films and written about in books, the spontaneous sexual encounter is more or less another name for the Americanized word, “quickie“.

This will be sex in the office, or out of doors, in an elevator, or even an airplane.

The quickie will give you from 1 to 5 minutes maximum, and often there will be a space problem. The other problem is clothing, and for the spontaneous encounter, you will need to keep as much of your clothing on as possible, as in spontaneous sexual encounters, there is always the risk of being ?caught in the act?.

The Best Sexual Position for Spontaneous Sexual Encounters

The very best is called the standing spoons. Assuming the encounter begins by kissing, once the couple have passed the moment of decision (to or not to), then the man must turn the woman around so she has to back to the man.

The clothes on the upper part of the body are not required to be removed (regardless of how it is done in films), and concentrate on getting the lower clothes to the knees at least or better the ankles. The man then embraces the woman with one arm, and uses the other to position himself.

The woman does the same. One arm is used to hold the man, usually around his neck, but holding her arm back over her own head, and the other is used to facilitate penetration.

Both the man and woman bend their knees slightly, and come together very closely, like two spoons resting together. As penetration is made the couple move in unison with push and recoil.

This is the action, and as entry was made from the rear, both the g-spot and the clitoris are stimulated.

It is very much like a dance, and indeed the movements from new club dancing should be used if the couple understands how to do it.

The very term spontaneous often means that there is not enough time to prepare for all eventualities.

That means, that use of a condom may not be possible.

Therefore, while enjoying the spontaneity of the event, the man and woman must think where the man is going to finish. If inside the woman, then there is no problem, if outside (a term known as coitus interruptus ) the man should terminate in his own free hand, as not to cause a mess.

Remember time is of the essence here, and a quick dressing after the session will not be possible if the man is careless about where he deposits his sperm.

Finishing Up

There are other sexual positions possible for spontaneous sexual encounters, but the standing spoons is by far the best from the standpoint of mutual satisfaction, speed to penetrate, react and completion, and should it be interrupted or discovered, it is the fastest position to recover one’s equipoise.

In the best sexual position series, we have endeavored to bring you new and pertinent sex health information not readily available elsewhere. In this article we discuss the best sexual position for an older man use. Our authority will be Errol Flynn.

Errol Flynn

The famous phrase in like Flynn seemed to appear in the early 1940s when Errol was on trial for statutory rape of two under-aged girls. The girls were 18 and Errol was 33.

Errol was acquitted, but human nature being what it was, his reputation was fixed thereafter.

The incident, and a great more detail can be found in Errol’s own book, My Wicked Wicked Ways. However, a quote by Nor a Eddington (later to be one of Flynn’s wives) commenting on the trial,

“I seriously doubt it; a guy like Flynn doesn’t have to rape a girl. His problem is how to prevent them from raping him.”

Flynn lived until only 50, and died on his yacht while with his girlfriend.

It is from one of his many women (always much younger than himself) where we found Flynn’s favorite (and best) sexual position. There is no way to prove the information is correct, but sincere research into his, and the lives of other sexual masters, bears out some similarities that gives credence to our information.

Flynn was a heavy drinker, used opium and smoked continuously (both tobacco and cannabis). Sex under those conditions, and with younger women, would prove also additional evidence that our information is correct.

The Flynn Position

This will be a woman on top position, but in three variations. The first is the woman mounting the man astride, where the man simply lies down, and the woman mounts him, and herself facilitates penetration.

The woman will support herself while resting her hands on the man’s chest, and do all the movement, in a bump and grind, and then forward churning motion.

At this point the man grabs the woman’s back and pulls her down to him, chest to breast. At this point the man starts thrusting, and the woman will be able to kiss the man, or put her head slightly to the side of his. Women tend to orgasm very quickly in this position.

The Flynn position will then shift with the woman, now sitting up aside again, but still penetrated, swivel to face away from the man. The man has now a wonderful view of his penetration, and the woman’s buttocks and genital area.

The man facilitates the woman in rising and falling on his penis, and then, the woman, while fully penetrated, goes back to her churning movement, rubbing very hard her clitoral area against the man’s. Again, orgasm for the woman can arrive very quickly and profoundly.

A Note on the Flynn Position

Our hero, Errol, had by reputation, great powers of self-control (over his climax and ejaculation). The position above would prove out to facilitate that control, except for the middle pose where the woman and man are chest to breast.

As to this being the best position for an older guy and younger woman, we would invite all prospective candidates for this to try and agree with or dispute the validity of Errol Flynn.

In our series of best sexual positions we have presented various positions for a number of conditions and circumstances.

This article gives the absolutely best sexual position for those couples who wish the deepest penetration possible.

About Deep Penetration

The truth is a woman’s anatomy (as is concerned with her uterus) is able to change shape depending on her position during the sexual act.

Some women are very interested in having as deep a penetration as possible (all the way to the cervix), and even if a man has a sufficiently long penis, the position assumed may not allow a deep enough penetration.

The Crab on Its Back

This position is the absolute best for deep penetration.

It is a man-on-top position, and it allows a great deal of facial contact of the partners.

It also gives the man the ability to thrust in robust manner, and the woman to return the thrusting with her own alternating movement.

The position is called the Crab on Its Back, and comes to us from both the Kama Sutra and the Arab classic, The Perfumed Garden.

How to Assume the Crab on Its Back Position

The woman will lie on her back on the bed, with her upper body only, and her buttocks placed near the edge of the bed, at the bottom corner.  Her legs are held open by the natural angle of the bed’s edge, and her legs hanging over the bed with her feet on the floor.  The man stands or bends over her, and easily penetrates her. At this time, the woman bends her knees backwards towards her breast, and resembles a crab on its back.  The man is supporting himself with his hands, but his torso and the woman’s are generally in very close contact.  The woman’s torso is pinned down, but she is free to move pelvicly, and should do so as the man starts thrusting.  The man himself can have both or one leg on the floor to support himself, whatever is comfortable.

The woman can pull her legs back further to allow the deepest penetration, and the man should be careful in his thrusting not to cause pain. The woman can rest one or both of her calves on the man?s shoulders.  The couple should move in a coordinated movement of thrust and repel for as long as possible. This will almost assure a synchronized orgasm if done correctly.  This position allows for maximum penetration and can be used by couples where the man may have only an average sized penis.  In this way, as the woman raises her hips off the bed, the man’s penis is fully penetrated, and to a maximum extent, the actual size of the man’s penis is not too important, as penetration is at a very deep level.

Maximizing the Orgasm

In this position the orgasm will come to the woman with deep and intense spasm and contractions.

It is highly recommended that the man not withdrawn during his orgasm, but continue to thrust while the woman (or they both) come to deeply satisfying conclusion.

The Crab on Its Back is absolutely the best sexual position for the deepest penetration possible.

Here we are going to look at some sexual positions from history that despite being thousands of years old are still popular today and give immense satisfaction to both men and women.

In 14th century Italy lived one of the greatest poets and writers of all time; the famous Giovanni Boccaccio.  In his timeless masterpiece, the Decameron, the reader finds 100 stories, covering a whole panorama of subjects.  Clothed in symbology, but clear nevertheless to the intellectual reader, one can find clear eroticism in a few of the stories.  Boccaccio was a master of language and symbolism, and was able to describe a sexual technique popular at the time.  It concerns two lovers’ efforts to fill their sexual activity with great variety.  They appear to stumble on a position that enhances the grip the vagina has on the man’s penis. This would be ideal for a man with a smaller (or in today’s language, normal penis)

The Male Penis in the 13th and 14th Century

Not a great deal is known, as even preserved penises shrink to very small sizes (Napoleon who was reported to have a very large penis had his penis preserved after his death.  It is on show at a Paris museum. It is a poor blackened fossil of about 2 inches). The statues of the period (especially those of Michelangelo) show men with rather small and delicate penises.

The Sexual Position in Boccaccio

It appears the woman is on her back, with a pillow under her buttocks.  This raises her hips very much toward the man. The man is standing, and places himself between her legs.  He will lovingly raise the lady’s thighs high as possible, pressing them even to her breasts. The man then grabs the lady’s arms, in a loving embrace.  At this point, the man will penetrate the woman, finding this position has compressed her vagina, and making it very tight and close. The sensation is wonderful for both the man and woman.  The man should not thrust but press and rotate hips leaving his penis fully inserted.

This brings an exquisite pleasure to the woman as the man’s penis is up against the g-spot and the man feels the full pressure from the vagina’s muscles and compressed space.  The man must keep his penis fully inserted, and make false thrusts with his hips as pressure only.  The circular and gyrating motion of the man’s hips can be fully reciprocated by that of the woman.  As this position is quite tiring for the woman, she usually will reach her climax and crisis very quickly, and usually with whole body spasms.  Boccaccio suggests that after such lovemaking, the couple will lay together and gaze into each other’s eyes, giving some spiritual pleasure to a transforming physical experience.

The couple should lie first in silence till their systems have returned to the quiet state. A gentle sleep can follow, taking the couple to even higher spiritual feeling.  After this small rest, the man (if he has slept, even for a moment) may find himself fully recovered for additional sexual activity.  The woman will also be quite ready. A repeat of the position above is not recommended, but a side-to-side position with rear entry.

So, do you think of romance when you hear the term “Kama Sutra?” Some people think of something a little bit more physical, but believe it or not, there are just as many different positions of romance as there are for intercourse.
For those of you who don’t know, the Kama Sutra is an ancient text of dozens of sexual positions for loving couples. The Kama Sutra is extremely popular and sought after by lovers who want to add more excitement to their love lives.
But adding real, old-fashioned love to your relationship is one of the best ways possible to improve your sexual and mental satisfaction . . . and there are endless ways to bring that love into your life. More ways, in fact, than there are sexual positions in the Kama Sutra!
So the Kama Sutra of Romance, as we will call it, is full of more “positions” to improve your love life than you’ll ever find in any sex book. And I guarantee you that the positions you’ll discover in the Kama Sutra of Romance will bring much more fulfilling and enduring changes to your love, too.
So, how do you get your hands on a copy of the Kama Sutra of Romance and add an endless number of new romantic positions to your love life? Well, believe it or not, the Kama Sutra or Romance can be yours for free . . . because it’s up to you to write it!
That’s right: just like every love is unique, so are the different romantic positions that will add new life to your relationship. From romantic dates to honeymoon ideas to pet names, there are endless possibilities . . . and sometimes, options that are perfect for one love are poison to another.
So as you write your own Kama Sutra of Romance, remember that the romantic positions that will work for your love aren’t the same as anyone else’s. Just like the original Kama Sutra, you should never feel guilty about discovering the romantic positions that work best for you and implement them in your love!
And always remember that just because a love relationship doesn’t have any physical aspects early on, that doesn’t mean that physical attraction and sexual openness can’t develop later. The best love is the kind that is nurtured slowly, and the more patient you are, the more likely it is that your relationship will become fulfilling for both partners. Have patience, be willing to try new things, and respect your lover’s opinions, and your sexual relationship will develop, as well.
When you look at the most durable, long-lasting and fulfillinf romantic relationships in the world, you’ll notice that they all have one thing in common: they were developed slowly, over a long period of time, and the people involved in them were paient. Patience is the common characteristic of every successful relationship, and it’s really the secret key to uncovering your own Kama Sutra of Romance . . . and discovering a treasure trove of variety in your romantic life.

The act of conception has been cloaked in mystery, it seems forever. However, the ancient Indian Rishis who studied all elements of our lives came up with some sexual positions and other techniques that promote conception and pregnancy.

Clearly outlined below, these sexual positions and techniques can be either followed (as an aid to conception), or avoided to prevent conception.

The Act of Conception

Clearly the delivery of a man’s sperm into the woman’s womb is the first condition to becoming pregnant.

However, the woman must be in or near her fertile days, the chemistry of her womb but be correct to facilitate the movement of the man’s sperm, and her mental state has to be such, that the very cells of her body are ready to the conceptual event.

Any one of the three conditions out of balance with the other (available and healthy sperm, body chemistry and mental attitude), can prevent conception.

Addressing the Body Chemistry

The woman’s body chemistry changes throughout her monthly cycle. Near, during and slightly after ovulation, her body chemistry inside the womb becomes less acidic and less hostile to the invading sperm.

In fact, as the man’s ejaculation occurs, a special protective layer (a sort of shield) forms around the sperm, and it facilitates the sperm being able to navigate through the cervical mucus…now much thinner during the woman’s fertile period.

The Woman’s Mental State

Hardly understood, a woman’s mental state determines her body’s reaction to the invading sperm.

The sperm can be welcomed or unwelcomed (to use a metaphor), but in any case, if the sexual act places the woman in a relaxed and stressless condition, her uterine contractions (in response to the freshly deposited sperm) will actually propel the sperm quickly towards the fallopian tubes where awaits a fertile ovum (or egg).

Therefore, the man should discover how to relax and calm his partner, and how to help place her state of mind in a calm and relaxed condition.

The Best Sexual Position for Conception

Called by various names by the Indians in the Kama Sutra, by the Arabs in the Perfumed Garden, the sexual position that is most suited to aid conception is commonly known as the “riding high – missionary variant”. Many ancients called it the Crab position.

Actually, it is technically known as the coital alignment position, and is a variant of the people in the West call the ‘missionary position’ The Crab position however is not only suited to aid conception, but during the sexual act its employment will highly stimulate the clitoris, and often cause a massive clitoral orgasm.

As the sperm is ejaculated into the woman’s womb, the orgasm and strong contraction will actually propel the sperm towards the fallopian tubes.

To do the Crab position, the man lies on top, but above the woman with her legs bent back at the knees, and pulled towards her breast. A small pillow (not too big) should also be placed under the woman’s buttocks.

As the man penetrates her, he, glides forward along her body, with the root of his penis (that part closest to the body) stimulating the woman’s clitoris.

No thrusting should occur, but the man and woman will alternately apply pressure to each other’s pelvic regions A circular motion (often called ‘bump and grind’) can also be applied, and in a short while the woman should arrive at a great and profound orgasm. The man should try to finish as near to that event as possible.

The couple staying in this position after ejaculation will also facilitate the sperm being pooled nearer towards its goal. The chances of becoming pregnant in this position (with the other conditions present), are very high.

The Kama Sutra is a group of Indian texts written by a scholar named Vatsyayana Mallanaga. The term Kama Sutra is derived from two Sanskrit words Kama and Sutra which means desire and guide respectively; when translated literally, Kama Sutra means a Treatise on Pleasure.

As known by the masses, the Indian Kama Sutra is a classic text used as a guide to love making and also as a reflection of the social traditions of India. A lot of people who have read or have heard about the Kama Sutra simply see the book as a manual on unconventional sexual positions; however, the Indian Kama Sutra is viewed by scholars as a classic text with historical importance. The book is about living, with texts on how to find a partner, how to maintain a marriage, and how to perform sexual intercourse.

Man has three chief goals in life, according to the Indian Kama Sutra. These goals are duty and responsibility for one’s actions or Dharma; the acquisition of power through wealth and politics or Arta; and pleasure or Kama.

The book has several sections that give advice on how to live one’s life. The initial chapters of the book discuss man’s three main priorities, how to acquire knowledge, the behavior of a townsman brought up with good breeding and many other items. The second section details the sexual positions and techniques. This is only one small part of the book; however this section focused on the sexual positions has given the book its popularity in the Western world. The succeeding sections discuss such topics as how to acquire a wife, the duty of a wife, the behavior of men and women, courtesans, and how to attract others by improving one’s physical attractiveness.

There are originally just eight positions detailed on the book, and eight variations per position, making a total of sixty four positions in all. There are several categories on the art of love making as detailed in the Indian Kama Sutra written by Vatsyayana. These categories are the sitting positions, the standing positions, the rear-entry positions, the woman on top positions, and the man on top positions.

People who choose to read the Indian Kama Sutra should read the book as a whole and try to apply the advice and teachings discussed in the book to real life. It should also be kept in mind that the book is not merely a guide on how to perform sex, but as a guide on how to live one’s life better and to establish better relationships with the people around him.

1 Learn how he likes his penis to be handled

His penis is not like your clitoris – it’s not highly sensitive and delicate. So he’ll want you to go straight for his penis during sex, and once you’re there he’ll want you to apply a firm pressure (though you can make sex last longer by teasing him and working gradually down his body towards his penis). Learn how he masturbates, if necessary by watching him, and you’ll soon see the kind of stroke and pressure he appreciates most.

2 Play with his balls

Because men are so penis-centred, they and their partners tend to forget how sensitive and erotic his scrotum and testicles can be. Play with his balls as you give him fellatio, for example, and he’ll be in heaven. You could even try taking one at a time into your mouth and gently rolling it around.

3 Play with his perineum

If you haven’t discovered the erotic potential of his perineum yet – that’s the area between his scrotum and anus – then another treat’s in store. You can press, lick, stroke and tease this area, right up to his anus, and increase his sexual excitement enormously.

4 When he comes, stimulate his anus

A finger on his anus when he comes can make a man’s orgasm feel much more intense. If he’s near his orgasm, it can make him come there and then. And if you put a (well-lubed) finger inside him and press his prostate gland when he comes, he’s likely to have a massive orgasm!

5 Talk dirty as you make love

A lot of women are too inhibited to talk dirty during sex, but I’d say most men like it – a lot. If you tell him to “fuck my hot wet cunt” when you’re both enjoying sex, he’s most likely to come there and then!

6 Do something different

If you always employ the same old routine during sex, do something different. For example, try a different sex position. If you usually have sex with him on top, roll over so you’re doing it on your sides, facing each other. If you haven’t tried woman on top, get up there and ride him. If he likes rear entry (and which man doesn’t?) then let him enter you from behind while you lie in the spoons position on the bed – that’s more intimate than rear entry but probably just as exciting for him. Or take the initiative, and seduce him in the kitchen, making love on the table or the floor! These positions are especially fun to try when you’re feeling horny.

7 Try watching porn together

Men like porn, and whether you appreciate it or not, it’s here to stay, and he’s most likely using it to get off. But the good news is that there is some nice erotic stuff around that isn’t abusive to women. One name to watch out for is Femme Productions. Sharing a sexy DVD before you go to bed can really add a spark of passion and excitement to your sex.

8 Wake him up in the night for sex

A woman can always seduce a man subtly if she puts her mind to it. So see what happens if you press your buttocks up against him in the night, or if you press your hot vulva against his cock as he slumbers. Move your hips around a little as you do this, and he’ll soon be raring to go. This might be best reserved for the nights you don’t have an early start next day.

9 Use lube if you need to – or even if you don’t

Even if you have a nicely moist vagina, a little extra lube is often a revelation. Just a squirt of Astroglide or Probe can change the feel of sex completely, making it seem like a new experience.

10 Try lube inside the condom

Just a little lube inside the condom can make sex much more pleasurable, but don’t use too much or it might just slip off when you least expect it!

11 Be assertive during sex

Take the lead during sex, act like a sex goddess, and do all the work for a change. Men like their partners to be assertive and sexually dominant from time to time, because having the responsibility for always initiating sex is tiring and involves at least some rejection. It’s a refreshing change when a woman acts as the dominant partner.
Yes, girls, men want you to sometimes take the lead and be sexually assertive. If you aren’t sure how to do this, start by climbing on top of him – the woman on top position can be very empowering for you, and he’s sure to love it. You can control the depth and speed of thrusting, especially if you tell him to lie still and enjoy it while you ride him!

12 Let him masturbate between your breasts

Ladies, you just don’t appreciate how much men like breasts. Even if you’re used to him making a bee-line for them when you make love, you still don’t know….just take it from me, it’s like being in heaven when you fold them around his penis and let him thrust between them.

13 Alternate shallow and deep thrusts during vaginal intercourse

Men often like deep thrusting because it feels more powerful and sexy – and it makes them come quicker. But a good plan is to switch between deep thrusts and shallow ones as you make love, because shallow thrusts delay his orgasm, stimulate his glans and frenulum (the most sensitive bits of his penis), and they also hit your G-spot.

14 Press back against him as he thrusts

You don’t have to be passive during sex. Even in the man on top position you can thrust back against him, buck your pelvis, and add all your sexual energy to his. If you’re having sex in the rear entry position, get him to stand still while you move back and forth along his penis.

15 Tell him you how much you want him to fuck you

Assuming your man is just like the rest of us, he’ll want to be told how much you admire, like and desire him. Whereas women want to be cherished by their partners, the corresponding desire in men is to be respected. Telling him how skillful and desirable he is as a lover will press all the right buttons.
16 Masturbate in front of him…
If you feel inhibited about masturbating in front of your partner – don’t. Seeing you bring yourself off is just about as exciting as it gets for him.

17 …then make love to him

If you masturbate in front of him, he’ll get so turned on, he’ll be desperate to fuck you, and he won’t last long when he does!

18 Teach him how you like him to masturbate you

Men aren’t the most subtle creatures in the world when it comes to masturbation, so you may need to coach him in the best ways for you to reach orgasm. Show him what you like, how you like to be touched, and how this changes as you get more aroused.

19 Have your orgasm before he enters you

This is especially good for men who come quite quickly. If he goes down on you (or masturbates you) until you have an orgasm, the pressure on him not to come quickly during sex is much reduced. What’s more, making love to you after you’ve had an orgasm means your vagina will still be hot, wet and swollen, and this will be a real turn-on for him, not to mention the fact that it will feel absolutely wonderful for him when he penetrates you.

20 Undress in front of him

Yes, we know you’re self-conscious about your body. But here’s the good news – he likes it. He knows it intimately, he makes love to it, and he sees it as a thing of beauty; he doesn’t look for the flaws in it, like you might be tempted to do. So he’ll love watching you undress, and if you add a little innocent seduction into the process, he’ll get turned on and show you how much he appreciates your body when you do make love.

21 Buy some sexy underwear and wear it like it was made for you

You don’t have to feel like a tart if you buy some sexy lingerie and act like a tease. High quality, pretty underwear is a turn on for both men and women.

22 Be wanton

It’s a common male fantasy to be bedded by a wanton woman who’ll act dirty and uninhibited. You can help him fulfill that fantasy by unleashing the sex goddess in yourself for a night. For example, try whispering to him when you’re having a night out that you aren’t wearing any underwear and that you’re oozing with desire for him. See the look on his face and you’ll know what I mean – but be prepared to have sex the moment you get through your door when you arrive home!

23 Ask him about his sexual fantasies – and perhaps act them out

But don’t laugh when he tells you what they are. He may not have shared his innermost fantasies with you for all kinds of reasons; they may even be some of his deepest secrets. Even if you don’t want to act them out, respect the fact that he shared them with you. If you do act them out, have fun, and don’t take it too seriously.

24 Don’t alienate him from the bedroom

Pretty frills and bright patterns and colors are all very well, but it’s his bedroom too, and he may appreciate being consulted about how much lace you want around the place. In short, don’t make your bedroom too feminine for his comfort.

25 Let his penis calm down after sex

Some men have such a sensitive glans after sex that they can’t bear to have it touched for quite a while. So be careful of his penis after you have made love.

26 Explore his body

Despite being so penis centered, men do like being licked, touched and stroked all over their bodies. For example, a man’s nipples are likely to be just as sensitive as yours – so encourage him to let you play with them. Some other places to stroke, tickle and lick him: his legs, buttocks and armpits; his neck and scalp; his toes; his back…..so that’s just about all over his body, really!

27 Know how to kiss

Yes, it’s nice to enjoy gentle kissing, but he’ll certainly appreciate a bit of full-on mouth work from you from time to time. It hints at penetration and breaks down barriers to intimacy and familiarity.

28 Discover his favorite sexual positions

All the sex positions have something in their favor, but like most men, he’ll have his favorite. It might be man on top for the deep penetration and feeling of dominance; it might be rear entry for the sheer pleasure of fucking you from behind; it might be woman on top for the pleasure of lying back and enjoying the ride. Most likely, it’s all of them! But there will be ways in which you can make it even better for him, perhaps by squeezing his penis while he’s inside you, or wrapping your legs around him when he’s on top. Take the time to find out what turns him on, and he’ll show his gratitude both in and out of the bedroom!

29 Don’t fake orgasm

You’re not a charity, and it’s disrespectful to both of you to pretend you’re sexually satisfied when you’re not. If you don’t make it to orgasm during intercourse, have your orgasm from him giving you oral sex before you have intercourse. Remember, very few woman actually reach orgasm through intercourse, and most they like it for other reasons such as feeling loved or giving their partner pleasure.

30 Learn to give great head

Nothing you can do for a man shows you love him like oral sex. Women think men like it because it feels good – and that’s certainly true. But men also like it because it’s the ultimate symbol of acceptance by their partner – that she will take his most precious part and accept it into her mouth. Good oral sex is at least as good as vaginal intercourse for me, and many other men as well, I’m sure. And when you know how to do it well, you’ll have a lover keen to pleasure you in return

31 Develop a tight vagina

Apart from the fact that a healthy set of PC muscles is good for you, it does make a difference to men during sex whether their partner has a tight vagina or not. Some men say that making love to a woman who’s had a child is much less satisfying – well, if the woman has toned up her muscles, with Kegel exercises, that need not be the case.
So there we are! Some simple tips to make sex great for men. Like it or not, sex is incredibly important to most men, and most relationships go a lot better when the partners are enjoying fulfilling sex. If you as a woman get satisfaction from seeing your man happy in bed, then the tips above go a long way towards making that happen.

In the best sexual position series we have covered the whole range of positions to be taken during the sexual act, for different purposes.

This article is concerned about disproportionate couples; such as a thin man and a corpulent woman, a thin woman and a corpulent man, and finally the best sexual position if both the partners are corpulent.

These positions are adapted from the Arab Classic The Perfumed Garden, a work of timeless value.

The Thin Man and Corpulent Woman

The man must consider the best sexual position for them is sideways.

The man lays the woman on her side, and taking her thigh on the top leg, raises it as high as possible on his own upper leg, so much so, that it will rest on his waist.

The man will use the woman’s lower arm as a pillow for his head, and a real pillow under his own lower hip (to make sure his penis is at the correct height to penetrate the woman).

This is done as the woman’s thighs will be very thick, and thus without height adjustment, the man will not be in a position to penetrate the woman.

The couple, now joined, can thrust together (the man pushes and woman recedes, then the woman pushes and the man recedes). This is best sexual position for the thin man and the fat woman.

The Thin Woman and Corpulent Man

There are more variations for a thin woman and a fat man, but the following is by far the best. The man lies on his back with his legs flat. His fat stomach will, on account of gravity, spread out evenly.

The woman mounts the man, and with her knees and hands on the bed (or floor) the man grabs her arms. She must move in the characteristic moves of the belly dancer (or bump and grind).

If she cannot do this movement (some women cannot) the man can induce her movements with his bent knees but its better to have the woman move. This is the best sexual position for the thin woman and the fat man

The Corpulent Couple

The fat couple will always have trouble with the sexual act, especially if they have large and protruding bellies.

The best (and only) sexual position for them is for the woman to go on all fours, but elevating her buttocks to expose her genital area. Her legs must be open as much as possible, and the man must assume a kneeling position himself, separating her legs, and then penetrates her from behind.

The man must either hold his belly with his hands or put it to rest on her back and buttocks. If he is able to place his belly so, he can hold on to the woman’s middle, and pull and push her in a mock thrusting motion.

If however, the woman’s buttocks is too low to rest his belly, the man must place a pillow under her knee to raise her up. This is the best, and perhaps only successful sexual position for the fat couple.

The Kama Sutra written by Vatsyayana consisted of seven sections further divided into thirty-six chapters. We will discuss each of these sections to glean the details of what Vatsyayana was trying to convey in the Kama Sutra and the importance he placed on specific subjects.

Section One – Introductory

The first section of the Kama Sutra consisted of five chapters explaining the contents of the manuscript, the three major aims and priorities of life according to the Hindu belief system of the day, the acquisition of knowledge, suitable conduct for the well-bred townsman and various reflections on intermediaries who assist the lover in his enterprises.

Section Two- On Sexual Union

The second section of the Kama Sutra consisted of ten chapters on the stimulation of desire, various forms of embraces, caressing and kisses, marking a partner with the use of the finger nails, biting and marking a partner using the teeth, on positions of copulation, explanations of sexual practices such as slapping with the hand and moaning that accompanied the practice, evidence of virile behavior in women, superior coitus and oral sex practices, along with preludes and conclusions to the game of love. There are 64 types of sexual acts described in this section which has become the part of the Kama Sutra for which the book is most widely known.

Section Three – About The Acquisition Of A Wife

Section three of the Kama Sutra consists of Five chapters on the forms of marriage, how to relax and obtain the girl, how to manage alone when a suitable wife cannot be found and the union by marriage.

Section Four- About A Wife

Section four consist of counsel to the various types of wives a Hindu gentleman may have had. There are two chapters dealing with the conduct of the wives. The section of the Kama Sutra yields advice to the solitary wife in how she should conduct herself. This section of the Kama Sutra also explained the conduct of the chief wife and other wives in a household with multiple wives and concubines.

Section Five – About The Wives Of Other People

This section of the Kama Sutra consisted of six chapters on behavior of women and men. It included advice on the methods of seducing another mans wife, including encounters for getting acquainted, examination of sentiments, the tasks and advantages of go-betweens, the king’s pleasures such as his harem and ways the brave could circumvent security measures and enjoy those pleasures themselves, as well as the proper behavior of a Hindu gentleman in the gynoecium or womens apartments.

Section Six – About Courtesans

Section Six of the Kama Sutra consisted of six chapters on making the best use of the advice of the assistants on choosing lovers, the search for a steady lover, the courtesans skill set and ways of making money, how best to renew friendship with a former lover, creating occasional profits and dealing with profits and losses associated with being a courtesan.

Section Seven – On The Means Of Attracting Others To One’s Self

The two chapters of section seven of the Kama Sutra deal mainly with thoughts on improving physical attractiveness to others and arousing a weakened or failing sexual power.