Since the beginning of time men have been lured by this power that women possess. It is a combination of love, sex and spirituality. Through women, men learn about life and love. This is the main purpose of matriarchy, to restore this balance so that men can learn the proper way of loving. When women are loved properly they excel and all of life is enhanced. They are not oppressed and freely they learn about their own pleasure and the many attributes innately in women. Women are natural healers, providers and teachers. A woman unbridled by the patriarchal rules of society is sexually free and able to work her magic upon the world.

Female Supremacy is an extension of matriarchy. Not the reversal of patriarchy, but built on concepts of Feminine priorities. The biggest misconception of Fem Supremacy is that it dissociates the male gender. This isn’t at all true. The problem is that there are so many myths clouding the facts that it’s easy to form assumptions about what Fem Supremacy is and isn’t. Unlike patriarchy, matriarchy approaches life in a loving and life enhancing way. Matriarchy doesn’t force people to believe their way, but focuses on teaching those who hear it’s calling and have not found patriarchy as a solution for their happiness. Matriarchy is the foundation for Fem Supremacy.

Ever since I was a little girl I have controlled people: My parents, teachers, friends, boyfriends, etc. I get what I want, when I want it.

“True” slavery is not about whips and chains. “True” slavery is about love and devotion. A slave should love its Mistress with all of its heart, body, and mind, and try every day to please Her in each and every way that She desires. Every waking minute of the slave’s life should be spent spoiling it’s Mistress, pampering Her, catering to Her every wish and demand, waiting on Her hand and foot, and obeying her every command without question or hesitation. A “true” slave’s servitude should be totally unconditional, without expectation of favor, or reward, and the “true” slave is one who serves only from the heart, and never from the crotch.

I am not here to serve you, but you are here to serve Me and don’t you for a second forget that when you are communicating with me, or I will dismiss you in an instant. Submission comes from the soul. It’s is something you live and breath. It is not a fantasy or a part time job, but in fact a reality. If you do not believe this to be true , then you are of no use to Me.

Female Supremacy is an extension of matriarchy. Not the reversal of patriarchy, but built on concepts of Feminine priorities. The biggest misconception of Fem Supremacy is that it dissociates the male gender. This isn’t at all true. The problem is that there are so many myths clouding the facts that it’s easy to form assumptions about what Fem Supremacy is and isn’t. Unlike patriarchy, matriarchy approaches life in a loving and life enhancing way. Matriarchy doesn’t force people to believe their way, but focuses on teaching those who hear it’s calling and have not found patriarchy as a solution for their happiness. Matriarchy is the foundation for Fem Supremacy.

I have seen rabbis, priests, and spiritual seekers and know that their quest was to try and understand the mystery of the Divine Feminine. No man is free from its grasp. No man can escape the power of woman. No matter how much he tried to exploit, own or control her the fact remains that wise men still seek Her.

Female Supremacy is about a natural love that exists between the Feminine and the masculine. Expressed through Dominance, submission, and Feminine Priorities. This truly teaches men to love the Feminine way and adoration, humility and service through subjugation.

Fem Supremacy is a way of life for me. If I take an interest in someone I am happy to take them on this journey. The people that come into my life do so to experience the woman that I am. You must learn every aspect of what pleases me…not just kink. I am selective when choosing slaves. The title slave is a very precious one to me, therefore I am selective. Currently I am seeking slaves to enrich MY life.

Domination is something I need in my life. It’s part of me and as important as the air I breathe. It’s beyond sexual, although I find it highly erotic. When a man or woman kneels before me ready to please me at any capacity I see fit it seduces a very primal urge within me. I am naturally drawn to submission like a moth to a flame I find it hard to resist no matter the emotional expense.

I enjoy mental domination. There’s something about expanding a person’s limits that I find exciting. My style of domination is complex and a complicated game reserved only for those who prove worthy of this attention and those who are ready to embark on this journey. I enjoy all types of play and depending on who I’m with all levels. My personality is multi-faceted. I can be a loving nurturing woman but I can also be a cruel bitch. Those who serve me see all sides of my nature.

I value honesty above all else. If you don’t have honesty, what do you have? I expect my slaves/servants to be honest, loyal, sincere, devoted and respectful above all else.

Furries Furries everywhere……. you would be surprised by how many furries are out there!

If you’ve never heard of a furry, then you are in for a treat.  This fetish is quite creative and very different than others.  According to Wikepedia:

Furry fandom (also known as furrydom, fur fandom or furdom) refers to the fandom for fictional anthropomorphic animal characters with human personalities and characteristics. Examples of anthropomorphic attributes include exhibiting human intelligence and facial expressions, the ability to speak, walk on two legs, and wear clothes. Furry fandom is also used to refer to the community of artists, writers, role players and general fans of the furry art forms who gather on the Internet and at conventions.

Therianthropic characters that morph between human and animal form are also considered by some to be part of the genre. Even certain superheroes with animal derived powers are considered of furry interest by some fans, the general idea being a combination of human and non-human animal attributes. Even characters like Josie and the Pussycats are considered of interest to furry fandom, though they only wear costumes with animal ears and tails.

Now this definition does not include the sexual aspect of a furry.  Furry fandom is a prerequisite of becoming a true furry, if you are enthralled with animal like creatures with human characteristics to the point of wanting to experience sexual intercourse with one of them then you are a furry.  It’s funny because I can tell you right now that most of my friends growing up at about middle school ages were definitely attracted to certain Disney characters because they portrayed many attractive human characteristics.  But as you enter into adulthood you realize that this is not socially acceptable and so you would never admit to being attracted to a character like symba in the Lion King, or the Little Mermaid.

If you are interested in meeting other furry’s there are multitude of meetup groups across the country. Check them out here:

Meetup.com

** Keep in mind though that being a furry does not necessarily mean that you have sex as a furry, so don’t go into one of these groups expecting that everyone there is wanting that, some people just like to dress up and play the part because it is fun for them.

There is a furry convention coming up in Atlanta this March check it out, looks pretty big:

FWA Carnival

What is a real fetish and fetishist? Can you call yourself a fetishist, when you like to go in special shops, and buy cool clothing? When you put on these clothes, and enter the fetish parties and events, only to meet other cool and liberal people? I’m sure that among the visitors and models at the events, there are real fetishists. Otherwise they wouldn’t have been there. But isn’t a fact that the fashion business are using fetish teams in their collections, and the followers who always need too feel “in” and “hip”, buy this clothes and suddenly think that they are fetishists? Typical urban followers who lack the capability of think themselves, catch up in what the real in-crowd are wearing, and reading the magazines, so they know what to wear the next week.

These people, together with well paid glamor models who take modeling jobs at the fetish events, and then create an image for themselves, are probably not the real fetish crowd. I would like to hear some of the fetish models be real honest about what turns them on. Image and fashion sells, and they follow the stream where there are money to make. That makes sense. Some of the models have actually entered the fetish scene, before they created a fetish model image, and then I think their fetish sounds a lot more convincing.

Anyway, it’s nice for all who enjoys various types of fetish photos that the models really go into these things. It’s a lot more exciting to see worshiping of beautiful models feet, than the more ordinary ones among the real fetishists. A real Norwegian female foot fetishist , says in an article in Norwegian Lek Magazine, that she only gets turned on by men that thinks legs and feet are sexy. She doesn’t get turned on by ordinary foreplay, only when the guy caress her feet, licking and sucking her toes. According to her opinion, feet are as sexier as an erected penis. For men that don’t understand this, she doesn’t bother to spend any time with. She says that real fetishists are quiet about their sexuality. They get turned on by others with the same real thing, and don’t have any use for the “amateur fetishists”.

I think we all have some fetish in us. You can be turned on by a sexy foot or clothing, but you have a normal sex life anyway. Your fetish, or whatever turns you on, can be used as a foreplay or help to get in the mood. If you have a weakness for the female foot, then you will use any possibility to take a peek at your colleagues, neighbor, friend or a unknown woman’s feet. It’s just the same drift that makes others to check out butts, breast hands and so on. So why stigmatize fetishism and make it a deviant’s behavior?

Here in the more northern countries, the autumn is here and the ladies put on their nylons. It’s not a bad thing for anyone who likes to see a classy female leg or foot, wrapped around by nylon in any color.

There are several adult sites over the web viewed by both men and women. One of this is I Love French Girls, which is run by a french photographer, Jerome Gouvrion aka jG. He is considered as one of the top suppliers of fetish glamor photos on the Internet. As a matter of fact, he has produced over 50.000 pictures of women in latex clothes, femdom or bondage situations. If you are interested in viewing glamor photography with lovely french girls in distress, you can check out the site of jG. His website is comprised of excellent quality movies and photos which feature women wearing the finest latex outfits and discovering some amazing rope bondage. Moreover, some of his works display those french models in erotic shibari, bdsm games, totally restraint or simply dominated. All of the women modeling for Jerome Gouvrion are made to appear like French Girls.

Compared to other female bondage websites, I Love French Girls is different in a way that women love the art of Jerome Gouvrion. This is due to the fact that the photographer showcases more than a basic and primitive sexuality. He makes it a point to show that bondage and female domination is thrilling and aesthetic. Unlike other adult sites, the French Girls of jG are not depicted merely as helpless women in restraint : they are not shown as abused, there is a positive atmosphere where the girls are bound but happy to be tied. Jerome Gouvrion keeps in mind the notion of respect when he shoots his photos or videos. This is something which can be viewed even by the females since it does not belittle their dignity. You can check out this website if you want to know more about his fetish universe.

This bondage and fetish website is not similar to porn sites. This is due to the belief of jG that porn is merely basic. While there are some men who are bent on portraying the basic sexuality of the women, as with porn websites, Jerome Gouvrion is different. His ideas on mistress and slave glamor photography are diverse and not pornographic. He is more at ease with models who are not interested with doing porn photo shoots. The women he is working with are interested in his vision for ?softcore? fetish photography and videos. Although this might mean not expanding the audience of his site, jG does not mind not changing his perception over his website.

When it comes to what other individuals think of his website, Jerome Gouvrion does not mind that they are against such form of art. For him, what he is doing is just a way of sharing his passion to the people who have similar interests as him. There are a lot of people who knit their brows the moment they hear or meet terms such as sado-masochism or bondage. For them, this is related to pornography. However, these French Girls by jG prove there is another way: the fetish world never looked so aesthetic, exciting and, last but not least, fun.

Some fetishes are crazy but it is true that they exist. Men and women are sexual animals who derive pleasures from various avenues. Here are some ten fetishes which are top on the list. It is good to gauge your degree of fixation by reading about other people. During a survey carried out recently the following was revealed. Number ten on the list concerns stomachs. Males and females admitted that taut tummies drive them crazy. They said they will never be caught dating a person who has loose tummy. However some men admitted that they love women with a teensy-weensy tummy to help them release their sexual urge on the woman’s tummy. Otherwise his experience would not be enjoyable.

Number nine among the ten fetishes concerns body piercing. There are people with an obsession about tongues, nipples, penises, eyebrows and belly buttons. They would not get turned on by a person without these or more body piercing. To them it is not only beautiful but prerequisite. Men love material such as rubber, leather, latex and vinyl. Actually they do not love the feel but the pornographic quality the material gives to the act of love making. Men will always have a fixation with a “bad girl” look even though they settle down with a “nice woman”. They find it teasing to watch a woman walking around in something tight and shiny. To some, the fetish goes as far as ordering their girlfriends to change their wardrobe to latex and leather attire only.

Among the fetishes, number seven concerns submission and domination especially in bed. There are some men who love their sexual encounters better if the woman orders them around like slaves. They are smacked, spanked and even penetrated with a strap-on. These variety of men enjoy being submissive to the women. I guess they are just tired of dominating all the time. Number six talks about something you are familiar with. Many people have a fetish with hand and feet. Some men only date women with beautiful toes and feet. This is because they love to bite, suck, lick and kiss their women’s feet. Crazy as it may sound, some women exclusively climax on sucking a man’s finger as though it was his penis. Number five on the list is about men’s crazy obsession with red lipstick and long, red-painted fingernails. It is a thing of the 1980s but it makes them feel like they are having adulterous sex which is exciting.

Men are so much into pigtails, braids and ponytails. Hair is a great fetish is among the ten fetishes. Men prefer dating younger women and dating one with a pigtail makes them feel like their desires are fulfilled. They too love the way the hair is tied up such that it resembles a whip. They then demand their women to whip them with the tied hair and it turns them on ultimately. Some women have a fetish for bald heads. They love to caress the bald head during a passionate embrace. Fetish number three involves water. Some people admitted to having enjoyed sex when there was some running water at the background. It could be rain or the shower. Number one on the list is voyeurism and exhibitionism. Many men need to see sex being in performance in order to enjoy their sexual encounter. They have to be watching pornography or erotic movies to orgasm.

When it comes to the gay counterculture in America today, there are more gay fetishes around than you can shake a stick at. And to be sure, you can shake a stick at an awful lot of them. Sure, there are plenty of vanilla gay folks out there who do not involve any gay fetishes into their sexual habits, but it seems as though more often than not gay fetishes are involved in homosexual relationships. It can be said that being gay is a fetish in and of itself, but for the purposes of this article, we will just focus on some of the more hard core gay fetishes in the society today.
S and M is one of the more popular gay fetishes around. This involves one partner sexually or emotionally dominating the other, with one or both people involved getting sexual pleasure out of the activity. This particular gay fetish has lots of other stuff involved, such as whips, chains, blindfolds, leather, latex and a whole lot more. And all these are dedicated to hurting the submissive person in one way or another. There are actually a countless number of websites dedicated to this S and M gay fetish, with many heterosexual people engaging in the activity as well.
To find people who are interested in this S and M gay fetish, one only needs to do Google, Yahoo or MSN search and visit one of these websites and befriend the people who are also members of the community. For a real life gay fetish experience of this nature, you can go to an S and M gay fetish bar. There is usually one in just about every major city, so finding one is relatively easy. In more rural areas that do not have S and M gay fetish bars, you can usually find a group of people who are willing to host such events at their homes.
Another popular gay fetish involves bondage. In this gay fetish, one person ties up his or her partner with ropes or chains. This is a common gay fetish for both gays and lesbians, and this often includes blindfolds to enhance the bondage experience. Although related to the S and M gay fetish on a basic level, not all people who engage in bondage play are also into S and M. Yet another gay fetish involves age play, where one partner is significantly older than the other.

While some think that fetishes are sexual obsessions the truth is that these days a fetish is anything that heightens your sexual experience even more than usual. It could be getting gagged and bound or having your naughty little romp video taped, it could be dressing up in leather or having sex with a complete stranger? even your love of women in heels could be painted with the ultra sexy fetish brush.

Feet and Toes Fetish

Maybe Madonna had it right when she said; Shoes are better than sex because they last longer, but according to the largest global study of sexual kinks ever under taken, there are a lot of men and women who don?t have a problem combining the two. This fetish was voted one of the world’s most favorite with thousands touting their love of foot jobs and toe sucking proving that putting your foot down can create new sexual delights? which leads us to the next fetish on our list?

Trampling Fetish

If you?ve ever had someone walk on you during sex then you’ve been trampled on and if you haven’t tried it then give it a go it’s exhilarating for those who get off on domination. The woman wears high heels while she walks over the man’s chest, throat, stomach, and crotch. Funny thing is that the man will barley move even when the woman is standing on his crotch with spiked heels. The men love the idea of being under a woman’s heel and the woman loves being on top. It’s a win-win situation where everyone gets off!

Domination Fetish

Speaking of domination? this fetish is all about submission there’s something about having power and being overpowered that sends tingles to all the right places. This fetish has become so popular that it can?t really be classed as underground anymore with more and more clubs organizing special domination nights. Using props like whips, chains, handcuffs and gags, domination lovers get a thrill out of being the dominant one or losing control by being controlled.

Latex and Leather Fetish

Seeing a hot body adorned in tight leather or latex could quite possibly be one of the sexiest sights and lucky for those who love this theme as it has an enormous underground culture. There are retail stores where you not only purchase anything and everything latex and leather related, you can also find out about latex parties where you will be surrounded by people dressed in leather and latex all night long.

Uniform Fetish

Who doesn’t go crazy for a man in uniform or a woman dressed in a cheerleader’s outfit This is a very popular fetish for men and women alike and it really brings the fantasy and fetish world together for a truly naughty night. This fetish is fairly broad and can be taken to any degree you feel comfortable with. A female doctor who seduces her patient or a medieval knight who knows how to use his sword ? the options are only limited by your cheeky imagination.

Messy Food Fetish

When the batteries run out on the vibrator what’s a girl to do? Well this fetish might offer some solutions as it involves doing all sorts of things with everything from bananas to jelly. Whether it’s playing with it, smearing it all over the body or having someone else lick it all off, the messy food fetish involves all sorts of bits and pieces you can find at your local grocery store. The tame at heart will probably stick to the chocolate body sauce which is just as delicious in more ways than one.

Balloon Fetish

This one is a little unusual and so we just had to include it! This fetish involves being turned on by balloons; the smell, the noise, the excitement of not knowing when they are going to pop. People who enjoy this fetish are known as looners and just hearing a hottie huffing and puffing on a balloon is enough to drive them over the edge.

Some people cannot put a finger on what their fetish is. Some know them but they think they are way too abnormal. What would you say a fetish is? It is word which means false charm, power or object. It is something you are obsessed with. It can be a body part or an object. Your sexual gratification is fixated on a particular thing. It becomes a fetish when you cannot sexually get satisfied unless you fantasize about it. It is so bad that even when you masturbate you must have it in mind and still when you are with a partner sexually it has to be present or somewhere in your imagination. For instance you might find brunettes attractive which is ok but if you cannot get sexually aroused without their presence, then you certainly have a serious fetish for brunettes.

A fetish transfers power from an original object or charm to a substitute. A person who has fetishes is known as fetishist whose operation is outside the circle of what is practically considered to be normal. The variety of fetishes depend on the object where the fetish is placed upon. The known inanimate fetishes are found in three varieties. The first one is a media fetish where the fixation is all about materials such as rubber, silk, latex and leather among others. The second variety is called a form fetish where the obsession is about the shape of the object. A good example of form fetishes are stilettos, knee-high boots and certain lingerie. When the object of obsession involves body parts, the type of fetish is categorized under animate fetishes. They can be breasts, hair, feet butts and any other body part.

People have the capacity of turning anything in to a fetish. There are mild and extreme fetishes. You can be able to assess the degree of your obsessive fixation according to whether it affects your relationships and your daily life. If it interferes with your activities you should seek professional help from a psychologist. Try as much as possible to tame your fetish because when if it goes wild it becomes a mental disorder. A fetish might be triggered by something. We were not born with these obsessions. We acquire them later in life as we develop. A guy admitted that he developed a fetish for tongue rings after being orally pleasured by a woman who had one. The cold abject rubbed against his manhood while her hot mouth was engulfing him. Such a guy is likely not to get sexual gratification by romancing an ordinary girl. He needs one with a tongue ring. Experiences make us develop a fetish.

It is amazing to learn that fetishes are our deep down turn on. We might never talk about them but in your gut you know it. Some men marry beautiful and humble wives while what turns them on is a “bad girl”. A girl with a crazy hairstyle and who can perform any act on them sexually. These idols are in movies and men close their eyes and fantasize about them. If you can watch a certain movie from Monday to Monday every day like there is no tomorrow, you probably have a fetish for that bad girl in the movie. A husband confessed that in order to orgasm, he had to fantasize that he was making love to this “bad girl” in his favorite movie.

Just like everything else, everyone has their own preferences and reasons for doing something. Have you ever experienced a time when you’re suddenly hit with a desire or some desires that just baffle you deep? That’s your “inner sexual fairy” trying to knock senses of curiosity at you – making you explore your sexuality. When it does, do you tuck it away in your dark dungeon and lock it up or do you embrace it and fulfill that curiosity? How desirable are they or how absurd are they would depend on your comfort zone and your boundaries.

Exploring One’s Sexuality is Not Something Dirty

It is getting to know yourself and your desires. Once fulfilled – you may like it or you may not – the least is that you would know what works and don’t for you that give you the utmost pleasure. I am not talking about people who are pedophiles, rapist or people who do other unlawful and inhumane acts to unwilling individuals by force and possibly hurting them. I’m referring to consenting adults that allow each other to help each other to fulfill their sexual fantasies – from nothing to shout about fantasies to extreme fetishes – whatever that tickles their curious buds.

Everyone Has Different Perceptions, Needs and Comfort Zones

What works for one that sounds interesting to you doesn’t always mean that it would be your thing. Take your time to understand your desires and learn about them. Give yourself time to bond with the “fantasy fairy” and let the fairy guide you to your sexuality that makes you whole. You will have to explore to know with a like-minded partner. To act on that curiosity or not – it is entirely up to you – you can choose to give in and know for sure or hold back and never know at all and cringe. I personally feel that killing that curiosity if it’s beyond our comfort zone is something to be embraced as if you don’t; you will always “wonder” and possibly regret or give yourself a hard time for not having the guts to try. Don’t push your limits too fast, nudge it.

If you choose to try something extreme to you beyond your comfort zone, you can try doing some research on it, talk to people who do or might have done that before to prepare yourself for that experience. You can go at it step by step – extending your comfort zone a little at a time till you reach your limit – the border line. If you need to back out at any time, do it – don’t let your ego or anyone coax you to do otherwise. Be true to yourself; respect yourself and your body. Of course there are times those things just happens – you’re just ready to go. When the student is ready, the “guru and the experience” will appear – intentional or not. Curiosity is one thing; trust is very important when exploring. Explore with someone you can trust that would respect your boundaries.

Let’s Look at Some Sexual Fantasies

Fetishes. Lesbianism, gayism, 3-some, orgy, bondage, cross-dress, S&M, fisting, rimming, voyeurism, domination, etc are yesterday’s news. There are so many sexual terms for them it’s hard to keep up. They are pretty common these days for many open and daring individuals – nothing to shout about – at least for the people who seek more than the usual conventional sexual practice. Some of the more extreme fetishes that I find intriguing – what goes through the minds of these people – yet appalled by some of them are golden showers, playing with faeces or vomit, have sex with full-on blow-up dolls, animals, fake pussies and the list goes on. What we find appalling; to others they are heaven. Respect your friends’ boundaries and never force them to see eye to eye with you on your fetishes – they may wish to explore it one day or perhaps never – they are the judge for when it should happen for them; NOT you unless you are prepared to lose your friendship if you don’t stop the hard sell.

How Do You Share Your Fantasies or Fetishes With Your Partner

This could be tricky and difficult at times. Communication and timing are important. Not everyone can be ready at the drop of a hat. Patience, understanding and respect are all crucial. Doing the hard sell may work for some, but for most that are more introvert you may have to be patient and use the softer approach – you may opt for some adult board games that cover from the norm to some popular fetishes that you could play with your partner – the fun and less intimidating way or even taking them to some fetish clubs to get the “exposure” with no expectations.

It’s important to allow your introverted partner time to explore at his/her own pace, to think and decide, provide him/her with literature, accept and respect his/her limitations. Above all, be prepared for the consequences that may follow if you plan to be out with it. Not everybody can be accepting and be understanding. They have to fight their own fears within in order to come out a champion and able to embrace the concept if they ever do.

There are many resources online for those who wish to explore and forums where you can discuss your concerns or simply to just ask for advice. As always, protect yourself from STDs. If your fantasy involves other people and your partner, it is wise to know the background of those “outsiders” or get the proof of a medical check-up or blood test report for STDs. Of course, it’s impossible to stay clear 100% from those nasty diseases, but you can minimize your risks.

Whatever may be your thing, let your inner sexual fairy speak to you and awaken your sexuality within. What is your thing? Do you know?

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Prostate massage is part of the digital rectal examination (DRE) routinely given to men by urologists in order to look for nodules of prostate cancer and to obtain expressed prostatic secretions (EPS) for examination under microscope. A few doctors, for a short period in the late 1990s, tried prostate massage in conjunction with antibiotics for the treatment of chronic bacterial prostatitis and benign prostatic hyperplasia (BPH). However, in more recent trials, prostate massage was not shown to improve outcomes compared to antibiotics alone. Therefore, prostate massage is not used to treat any medical condition today.

The prostate is the man’s other sexual organ, and there is a lot of pleasure, a lot of ecstasy, to be had with the prostate, and possibly more improved health. The man already associates pleasure with his penis, and now we’re teaching–there’s a learning that anal pleasure can be associated with sexual pleasure, and that prostate sensations can be associated with sexual pleasure. Prostate milking is commonly practiced by/upon participants of a sexual fetish known as erotic sexual denial that involves abstention from orgasm and ejaculation for considerable periods of time (often many weeks or months). If the prostate is full and stimulated sexually in some cases it may consciously and voluntarily be contracted, thereby emptying itself in the same way as during ejaculation but with none of the surrounding organs stimulated, without actually squeezing it digitally. Today, we’re talking about male prostate massage, as a fun and sexy path to pleasure.

Prostate health is essential for lifelong sexual pleasure and function. Prostate massage brings a new dimension in sex because of the psychological or mental high that a man is able to achieve. In the Far East prostate massage has been used for centuries as a way of maintaining the health of the gland and also to improve sexual health in general. In North American society however, the prostate is quickly becoming know as a sexual gland also. Many people find a prostate massage as an erotic type of sexual interaction. It is often recommended as an alternative form of sexual interaction when a person’s partner is unavailable or he simply doesn’t want to participate in other sexual intercourse activities.

Regular sexual activity is also good for the prostate. It is his feeling center for not only his sexual desires, but also his disappointments, hates, hostilities, stresses, and feelings of inadequacy. Prostate massage is a sacred tantric ritual used to awaken this sexual-spiritual focus point in your body. In some situations, the practice is used to reduce sex drive and sexual activity without the typical urges that normally occur after extended abstinence.

You should always keep in mind that enjoying anal stimulation does not indicate your sexual orientation. It does not mean that you are a homosexual if you enjoy the feeling when your prostate is being stimulated. Men often find that they experience new kinds of sexual pleasure previously unknown to them when the prostate and penis are stimulated simultaneously. To further prevent the association of sexual pleasure of any kind with the massage, some practitioners apply crushed ice or ice packs around the penis and testicles for some minutes before, and during, the massage.

The intimacy of prostate milking, the level of pleasure men experience and the new sexual twist all combine to make this a favorite activity of many women. They find that it brings them closer to their men, and that introducing this new activity adds new electricity to their sex life. Another woman told that it was by far her favorite sexual activity: When we do prostate milking, my boyfriend gets so hot and I love watching him receive. As more men and women discover the pleasures of prostate milking, it will become a more regular part of the sexual experience that couples can share.

The term “prostate milking” appears to carry a more specialized erotic meaning as compared to the general term of “prostate massage”, since it specifically invokes a fetishism of the male seminal fluids. Done internally either by lubricated finger(s), a prostate massager or other medical instrument, prostate massage may result in ejaculation without any genital stimulation. A prostate massager is an instrument used anally, designed to massage the prostate gland. The shape of a prostate massager is similar to a finger, since prostate massages are traditionally given digitally. They usually have a slightly curved head to effectively massage the prostate. A prostate massager should be used with care because of the sensitivity of the prostate.