Unlike what you may see in adult-rated movies, sex in real life can actually be awkward and funny. Slipping, fanny farts and sloppy wet noises are ALL part of making love. You can’t escape them. The trick is of course how to deal with these situations; how you convert the seemingly embarrassing situation into one that’s not.

The same goes with oral sex. There are booboos that might occur so it’s up to you guys to deal with it in such a way that it doesn’t completely destroy the sexual charge in the bedroom!

How to Deal with Oral Sex Blunders!

The following items are scenarios that can likely happen during oral sex. They’re not meant to discourage you and your partner with engaging in oral sex at all. They’re meant as a guide to help you guys get over potentially awkward, yet real life situations easily.

Scenario 1: Your pubic hair gets caught in her teeth. This happens more often than you think. You’re so turned on by the sexual pleasure and she’s so into what she’s doing that unwittingly, a strand of your pubic hair gets caught in her teeth… and gets yanked. Ouch!

The best way to deal with this is of course to laugh it off. Now how to get that hair out? The worst thing she can do is to make a big show out of it by sitting up and trying to get the hair out with her wide open and her fist in her mouth. Instead, she should casually – almost quietly and without drawing attention to it – take the hair out from her mouth and simply wipe the hair on the bed sheet to deal with later.

Scenario 2: Her dentures get ‘dislodged’. Actually, if HE didn’t’ notice it, SHE should simply proceed as if nothing happened. However, the problem here is that often, her instinctive reaction is of course to ‘catch’ the slipping denture with her hand, or worse, by closing her mouth. If this happens, and if she caused you pain, she should remedy the situation by slowly, lovingly licking and caressing the injured spot.

Scenario 3: She ‘accidentally’ bites you. Sometimes women get so turned on by performing fellatio that they get a tad carried away and he can feel her teeth slowly, but firmly, touching his manhood. First of all, if you feel this guys, speak up! Simply touch her hair lovingly – don’t yank because you’re in a panic – and ask her to ease up a bit. Believe me, she will understand.

The same goes if she’s using her nails, have tongue jewelry or even hand jewelry that you feel is too close for comfort. Simply speak up before the ‘accident’ occurs.

Scenario 4: You let out some ‘gas’. If women are afraid of fanny farts, men get conscious too of letting out gas especially if their women are down there performing fellatio on them. If this does occur, what do you do? Really, the best thing to do is simply pretend like it didn’t happen.

However, if what you released was not pleasant at all, then be a gentleman and stop for awhile. It’s no use for you to go out of the room as the deed was done there. However, what you can do is ask her to stop, pull her up so you guys are face-to-face and get into some deep kissing. This way, the sexual rhythm is not that shattered, yet you save her from suffering down there or worse, give her time to laugh and make fun of you.

Scenario 5: She gags. Some women can be too adventurous and try to bring their man’s manhood all inside her mouth. The problem is, if her mouth really can’t accommodate him, she’ll experience what most people call a ‘gag reflex’ and this is not pleasant – for you and her. The best thing to do is for her to pause as proceeding might only push her to gag further.
However, this does not mean she should stop stimulation of your manhood altogether. She can simply take you out of her mouth and use her hand for a while to stimulate you while she catches her breath.
In the end, a good sense of humor is all it takes to get over these oral sex booboos. The more you focus on them, and the longer you focus on them, the bigger the blunder gets and the more awkward the situation becomes. Don’t let this happen as this may become a deterrent in engaging in oral sex in the future.
Have a laugh, jot it down as experience, and move on!

Unfortunately, most women don’t know how to give good blow jobs. They’re looking for advice from other women that just think they know what are doing – but are in fact more or less clueless. Don’t get disappointed if you’re not that good – you can learn easily if you invest some time into getting the right knowledge and the real stuff – and not some stupid Cosmo fluff.

I’ll give you a few tips so you can give your man really good blow jobs. The first thing you need to do is change the way you view the whole “oral sex” thing. Over time you’ll see that there’s a lot more psychological stuff involved than physical. Let’s start with some basic tips.

Blow Job Tip #1

Relax. Get yourself to relax. Worrying and thinking negative won’t help you that much. What you really need is to get yourself and him in a comfortable position first. Next, try getting him to relax – but before that, you have to relax yourself. Emotions tend to jump from person to person. So if you’re going to be all nervous and lost – well, you don’t want that happening. Why are you nervous? You’re trying. Even if it’s not the best bj right away – so what? At least you’re trying and every guy will appreciate that. So relax, who cares. It’s not the end of the world. Over time and practice you’ll get better. Just view it as FUN and NOT WORK. Once you get into a playful attitude you can both just laugh about it and enjoy it without worrying about the outcome. That brings us the second tip.

Blow Job Tip #2

Stop expecting an outcome. He doesn’t have to orgasm. When you start worrying about it and thinking (while giving him head) – “Oh, why didn’t he came yet?”, “Am I doing it right?” and other similar stuff – you’ll just make him nervous, then he’ll start thinking “oh no, what if I can’t orgasm, is she tired, maybe I’m forcing this on her, maybe she’s not even enjoying it” – and that certainly won’t bring him to climax. So – relax. And forget about the outcome. Let there be fun, truly enjoy it and whatever. If he doesn’t orgasm this time, so what, he will next time. You just have to get off the stress from yourself and him. When you’re giving him head, you’re the one that’s leading. His pleasure depends on you completely (or pain). So stay in control, and understand that it’s all about controlling his mind.

Any woman can learn good bj techniques – but not every woman can learn how to control a guys emotions during the blow job. That’s what you have to learn if you truly want to be the best he ever had.

Blow Job Tip #3

Would you believe that a simple thing as a smile can make a HUGE difference. All you girls out there that are not smiling, and are all serious when giving blow jobs to their boyfriends or husbands. Hello? Don’t view it as a job. Get a fun attitude and SMILE. You have to convey to him that you’re really enjoying it – and a smile is where you should start.

The Best Blow Job Book around is BLOW BY BLOW by Michael Webb, an Oprah featured award winning author of many sex books. This detailed blow job book will provide you with techniques that you would never be able to imagine. If you want to KNOW how to give your man the most pleasure possible buy this book.

Those are the basics. Keep on learning and with a little practice, you’ll be the only woman he’ll ever desire. Ever! Such is the power of great bj’s. The good thing for you (once you learn the skills) is that your competition is pretty low. It’s not that hard to be better than average when it comes to giving your man oral. Just a little practice and the right knowledge – that’s it.

Good luck,
Jack

Cunnilingus has the potential to give women immense satisfaction and highly satisfying orgasms if performed correctly.

Many women actually find that they can climax easier from Cunnilingus than full sexual intercourse.

To learn how to perform cunnilingus takes some practice, but anyone can become skilled in the art of oral satisfaction and we have outlined some tips below to help.

Oral Techniques…..

Starting oral sex

To commence cunnilingus try the following:

Lick your partner’s vaginal entrance up her clitoris.

Then follow the outer edges of the vagina.

Make sure you cover both sides.

Going up and down each side this is a great way to start oral sex and get your partner relaxed for further pleasure.

The Labial

Hold the two parts together and make sure you do this gently with your lips.

Next run your tongue between the inner and outer labia, one side at a time and then repeat this motion.

Inside the vagina – Tongue intercourse

The majority of nerve endings in the vagina are located at the opening and this sensitivity extends a couple of inches inside.

When performing cunnilingus target these areas.

Insert your tongue into the vagina.

Probe with your tongue then try licking with circular motions and try flicks with your tongue as well.

Spread the outer vaginal lips gently apart with your fingers.

With your tongue stiff and pointed try licking and flicking the tongue across your partners clitoris and also

insert it into the vagina.

A word of caution

Go gently with the above.

Many women can be very sensitive and you should ask for direction about how hard you go when doing this.

Sucking

Expose the clitoris by spreading her lips and next expose the hood.

Take the clitoris in your mouth gently and suck it.

Let the clitoris go and then repeat again.

This is a huge turn on for most women and also adds the element of frustration to highlight the pleasure.

The A – B – C Technique

Spell the alphabet when performing cunnilingus with your tongue.

This gives the tongue a variety of directions that it can go in and this variety can be a huge turn on.

You don’t just use A – B – C use all the letters and ask which ones she finds the most exciting and keep them in mind for next time.

The exact technique for giving pleasure with cunnilingus will vary from woman to woman and the above is just a blueprint for you to use and explore with your partner

The key to finding exactly what your partner wants form cunnilingus is to communicate with her – Ask her what she wants, how she likes it and what is giving her pleasure.

Other points to keep in mind to make cunnilingus more satisfying for your partner are:

1. Make sure your mouth is moist

Fill your own mouth with as much saliva as you can, so that it is as moist as possible – Never use a dry tongue.

2. Don’t go for the clitoris straightaway.

Make sure your partner is relaxed and aroused.

Try kissing and licking around the upper thighs and vulva area after some general foreplay and then work your way slowly to the clitoris.

3. Variety is the key.

If you repeat the same technique your partner will quickly become insensitive to it.

Keep in mind variety with Cunnilingus is essential as it is in all sexual acts as it adds to the excitement and anticipation.

4. Use your fingers as well

You can use your fingers in association with cunnilingus.

Try inserting a finger or two into her vagina as your partner becomes more aroused.

Cunnilingus is one of the most satisfying sexual experiences for women and you can do it correctly and

give your partner mind blowing orgasms with a little practice and direction from your partner.

Fellatio is oral stimulation of the man’s penis. It involves the tongue and the mouth as whole. Kissing, licking and sucking are the main activities in this pleasurable activity. Many men get a hand on at the thought of a fellatio being performed on them. The feel of the mouth against the shaft is the fantasy of every man. The fellatio techniques applied determine the height of pleasures. You can easily pour cold water on a nice fellatio occasion by doing silly mistakes either knowingly or unknowingly. To make it a memorable moment, do the extra things we do not normally do and avoid doing the little things that irritate. I want to give some fellatio tips to help us to heighten the sexual ecstasy.

Among major fellatio tips is, while performing fellatio, be very careful not to bite the erect penis at the height of pleasurable arousal. This will cause undesirable pain after the act. Sometimes we don’t mean but it just happens. To avoid this, tuck your lips inside and around your teeth before you take the shaft inside your mouth. This is a safety tip to avoid careless biting. If you happen to repeatedly move up and down your mouth, you won’t like it. Soon you will feel an uncomfortable sensation caused by overstretching of the jaws. Worse still you might leave with a sore neck and jaw. Further movement of the penis towards the throat can cause a gag. All these are problems which can be avoided for best fellatio.

You might not be very comfortable with giving fellatio but if you will eventually do it do not talk negatively. Chances are if you keep mum, he will ejaculate fast and soon it will be your turn. Style up fellatio giver and use fellatio tips. Do not repeatedly stroke his manhood until he comes. He might not even get orgasm. Not all men ejaculate while fellatio is performed on them. Please, save yourself the agony and mix up the play. At some point, stop using your mouth and use the hand to stroke. This will definitely give time to relax. To prevent the penis from going too far, you can ask the fellatio receiver to hold the the base of the penis with one hand. This prevents the whole length from entering the mouth. If deep throating is of great interest to you, learn a way to control the gag reflex.

Fellatio tips such as cleanliness is common knowledge in all sexual encounters. Whether anal, vaginal or oral sex cleanliness is of key importance. To avoid irritation on the shaft, use lot of lubricants preferably flavored ones. To heighten erotism during fellatio, you can use whipped cream, honey or other food suit for the process. Fellatio is made more enjoyable if a little teasing is done. As part of foreplay you can tease his testicles but make sure it is in a gentle way. They might be too sensitive to accommodate more pressure. Keep looking at his scrotum as it shows how close he is to coming. The skin becomes tight and moves towards the body in preparation to ejaculation. After orgasm, it should not be the end to your fellatio. The penis becomes more sensitive and a little more stroking is not harmful.

The Best Blow Job Book around is BLOW BY BLOW by Michael Webb, an Oprah featured award winning author of many sex books. This detailed blow job book will provide you with techniques that you would never be able to imagine. If you want to KNOW how to give your man the most pleasure possible buy this book.