I don’t know if you are aware of the fact that around 8 out of 10 women don’t know how to give a proper blow job. It may be “okay” but “okay” won’t bring you far in life.

You need to be better than “okay” – you need to be the best, the 2 out of 10 that can really satisfy a man. And men think about oral every day of the week. Believe it or not, they do – they dream of the “right” blow job – unfortunately, for most guys it never happens. But when it does – he’s ready for marriage! The good thing for you is that it’s not just about “talent” when it comes to giving blow jobs. It’s learn-able.

It’s an attitude. It’s all about the attitude. But girls are endlessly searching the internet for the next big “secret technique” or some other bs from Cosmo. That’s not how you learn to give head. All these magazines and articles are too polite and don’t get down to the core – the point, the thing that really counts. Attitude. They may mention it – but that’s not enough. It’s a process.

Once you have the right attitude, of course, after that, you can start mastering some details and techniques. For example, I love girls that know how to talk dirty can capture my senses and imagination. These girls understand that sex is a lot more mental than physical, and what they need to do is to manipulate a mans mind with the right words, voices, smells and the whole atmosphere itself during oral sex.

I’ll lay you out some basics…

Blow Job Step One

Love every second of it. Stop viewing blow jobs as work. It’s not a job, even though the word “job” is in it. Don’t view it like that. This attitude won’t get you far.

Blow Job Step Two

Smile baby, smile. You need to CONVEY that you enjoy it. And that’s a whole other ball game, entire books can be written about it.

Blow Job Step Three

Use your ENTIRE body, not just your mouth. You give him head with your whole body, with everything you’ve got. You need to combine licking, sucking, stroking, tickling and everyhing else. There’s a secret combination. Once you figure it out (after some time and practice), you’ll be unstoppable. Other girls will be asking “how come he’s with that girl, what does she have that I don’t?” She won’t know. But he will, and he won’t even look at other girls, especially if he’s aware that over 80% of women “suck” at giving blow jobs.

Your blow job instructor, Jack

When making a decision on which position you should give your man a blow job in – I would suggest you to go with the flow. If you’ve been with him for some time you might already know what he prefers – the problem is that he probably didn’t see all the positions you could be in, so he doesn’t actually know what he likes best.

A third of your success when giving him a blow job is based on how you position yourself. Comfort is key. The more confortable it is for both of you the better. If you’re not in a comfortable position then you won’t be able to relax and focus on enjoying the whole thing.

So remember – on first place – comfort.

Men are visual creatures – we like to see things. We want to see you hot and sexy – so don’t even think about turning off the lights. There are probably over 50 positions you can give head in – but there are 2-3 that he’ll enjoy the most. That doesn’t mean you should do anything besides those 2-3 – you need variety from time to time and to spice it up. Too much of a good thing can result in being a bad thing after some time.

It’s important that you’re looking for feedback, see how he reacts in different positions and over time you’ll see what he likes most. My favorite positions to look at a woman while she’s giving me a blow job are:

Top Blow Job Position #1

I’m up, standing, she’s kneeling down between my legs, holding my shaft and looking me straight in the eyes with a smile on her face.

Top Blow Job Position #2

I’m sitting on a couch while she’s kneeling in front of me between my legs. Again, with a sweet and seductive smile on her face.

Top Blow Job Position #3

Another one which is a bit harder to explain so I’ll leave it for later. Let’s say I also enjoy 69 – but in the end, position number 68 is better since she and you are more focused. What’s position number 68? You give me head and I own you one

Your crazy blow job instructor, Jack

Unfortunately, most women don’t know how to give good blow jobs. They’re looking for advice from other women that just think they know what are doing – but are in fact more or less clueless. Don’t get disappointed if you’re not that good – you can learn easily if you invest some time into getting the right knowledge and the real stuff – and not some stupid Cosmo fluff.

I’ll give you a few tips so you can give your man really good blow jobs. The first thing you need to do is change the way you view the whole “oral sex” thing. Over time you’ll see that there’s a lot more psychological stuff involved than physical. Let’s start with some basic tips.

Blow Job Tip #1

Relax. Get yourself to relax. Worrying and thinking negative won’t help you that much. What you really need is to get yourself and him in a comfortable position first. Next, try getting him to relax – but before that, you have to relax yourself. Emotions tend to jump from person to person. So if you’re going to be all nervous and lost – well, you don’t want that happening. Why are you nervous? You’re trying. Even if it’s not the best bj right away – so what? At least you’re trying and every guy will appreciate that. So relax, who cares. It’s not the end of the world. Over time and practice you’ll get better. Just view it as FUN and NOT WORK. Once you get into a playful attitude you can both just laugh about it and enjoy it without worrying about the outcome. That brings us the second tip.

Blow Job Tip #2

Stop expecting an outcome. He doesn’t have to orgasm. When you start worrying about it and thinking (while giving him head) – “Oh, why didn’t he came yet?”, “Am I doing it right?” and other similar stuff – you’ll just make him nervous, then he’ll start thinking “oh no, what if I can’t orgasm, is she tired, maybe I’m forcing this on her, maybe she’s not even enjoying it” – and that certainly won’t bring him to climax. So – relax. And forget about the outcome. Let there be fun, truly enjoy it and whatever. If he doesn’t orgasm this time, so what, he will next time. You just have to get off the stress from yourself and him. When you’re giving him head, you’re the one that’s leading. His pleasure depends on you completely (or pain). So stay in control, and understand that it’s all about controlling his mind.

Any woman can learn good bj techniques – but not every woman can learn how to control a guys emotions during the blow job. That’s what you have to learn if you truly want to be the best he ever had.

Blow Job Tip #3

Would you believe that a simple thing as a smile can make a HUGE difference. All you girls out there that are not smiling, and are all serious when giving blow jobs to their boyfriends or husbands. Hello? Don’t view it as a job. Get a fun attitude and SMILE. You have to convey to him that you’re really enjoying it – and a smile is where you should start.

The Best Blow Job Book around is BLOW BY BLOW by Michael Webb, an Oprah featured award winning author of many sex books. This detailed blow job book will provide you with techniques that you would never be able to imagine. If you want to KNOW how to give your man the most pleasure possible buy this book.

Those are the basics. Keep on learning and with a little practice, you’ll be the only woman he’ll ever desire. Ever! Such is the power of great bj’s. The good thing for you (once you learn the skills) is that your competition is pretty low. It’s not that hard to be better than average when it comes to giving your man oral. Just a little practice and the right knowledge – that’s it.

Good luck,
Jack

It may not look like that, but fellatio, or giving your man a blow job, is actually a science. There are many hidden, very powerful things behind blow jobs. A woman that haves the skills to give amazing satisfaction to her man by giving her head has potentially great power, not just over/through that man, but in life in general. Why? Simply because she know to something (give amazing head), that most women out there do not.

Once you have something out there to offer besides your looks and charm you naturally become a lot more valuable than other plain Jane’s. I have gotten head from more women that I can remember, and I?m not telling you this to brag. I do not care if you believe me or not. The reason I?m writing this is because I got fed up from all those girls out there that don’t know how to give a good blow job. I made it my part time job to teach you girls the skills that have the potential to change your relationships. I’ll give you four simple tips that will improve your skills, use them wisely and you’ll explode from the effects.

Tip #1

Choose a good position. Positioning is everything. My personal favorites are when I?m standing and she is kneeling in front of me between my legs, looking me into the eyes from up there and lovingly giving me head. A bad position can ruin the whole thing not only for him, but you as well.

Tip #2

Change the way you view blow jobs. Stop making a chore out of it. You’re not supposed to do it to please him, but to please yourself. Once YOU start getting satisfaction from giving HIM a blow job the blow job itself will be at least twice as good.

Tip #3

Follow your emotions. Tap into the flow and just let go, you have to suck with passion and love, as if it was a dance. That’s why it’s even nicer to receive head when there’s some nice, chilling jazz music in the background, helping you to relax and forget about a hard day. Stop searching for the xzy special technique there is no magic pill with blow jobs. You can have the best techniques on the planet but that ain’t worth anything if you can’t apply the basics  and the basics are not physical but mental. Blow jobs are a skull game, a game of emotion, power and desire.

Tip #4

Your mouth is not just for sucking so don’t be afraid to do some talking. Play with his emotions, guide them. Once you have his shaft in your mouth, you are in complete control, his manhood depends on you. There is always the possibility that you might just snap and bite his shaft of that’s where all the excitement comes from. Don’t be afraid to have a tighter grip and a few firm bites here and there can only help you out in the long run.

The Best Blow Job Book around is BLOW BY BLOW by Michael Webb, an Oprah featured award winning author of many sex books.  This detailed blow job book will provide you with techniques that you would never be able to imagine.  If you want to KNOW how to give your man the most pleasure possible buy this book.

You can learn how to give good blow jobs by practicing, throwing in some passion and good looks will help a lot. Good luck, and never stop learning. If you have amazing blow job skills, you’ll have a lot more power in your relationships especially when it comes to keeping a guy. A good blow job is hard to find, so if you give it to him, it will be hard for him to find another.

Jack

I think this ad really speaks for itself. I guess an agency in Singapore was really hurting and decided that the best way to advertise this “seven” inch beef sandwich was to feature it as a blow job.  Pretty funny if you ask me, but it almost seems like the ad was designed before the sandwich.  It’s 7 inches, don’t you think that’s a little funny.  And the girl doesn’t even look human, she definitely was done up to look like a blow up doll with her mouth hanging open.  But I bet you’ll get a kick out of this…. I am hungry right now and I don’t like burger king but looking at this ad is making me want to eat that sandwich. LOL sex sells for sure it’s just that generally most large companies are a little more discreet about it not counting godaddy of course.  But if this ad was released in America there would definitely be an uproar.

Fellatio is the act of applying your lips and mouth to a man’s penis with the purpose of giving him pleasure.

Fellatio will not only give him immense pleasure but can also be extremely empowering for the giver.

Good Fellatio consist of three main ingredients:

Technique, enthusiasm and variety, lets look at how these all can combine to give your partner a mind blowing orgasm.

Performing the act

The lips and the tongue are the tools of stimulation in Fellatio. While practice makes perfect, here are some basic tips on how to improve your Fellatio technique.

Be careful first

Be careful with your teeth to prevent hurting your partner suck in your lips to remove the problem of your teeth grazing or nicking him. If you’re unsure of your partner’s sexual history be safe and use a condom. Oral sex gives more pleasure without a condom, but think of your own health and don’t take risks.

Condoms can however be quite fun especially if you try some flavored condoms and apply a water-based lubricant to the penis before you put on the condom which will increase the pleasure given from fellatio.

Enthusiasm

One of the main ingredients to giving your partner pleasure is enthusiasm, let him know you are enjoying it to and this will make him even more excited. Your partner will want to know you are not just doing it to please him. He will want to know you enjoy as well!

Variety

Don’t always use technique, as surprise is a great weapon when trying to arouse him during fellatio, this means using your imagination and plenty of variety, keep him guessing as to what pleasure is in store next!

Basic tips for great fellatio

1. Use eye contact while sucking him; watch his expression as he receives pleasure.
2. Try and lick the whole shaft of his penis, and the ridge where the head joins the shaft, called the corona. This is the most sensitive part of his penis.
3. Follow this ridge around to the underside. There’s a juncture where the two ends come together. This tiny area is the equivalent of the women’s clitoris so make sure you target it
4. Use your breath blow gently with your hot breath all over the penis this is an incredible way of getting him warmed up and hard before you start licking and sucking but can be used at any time as a tease.
5. Lick his scrotum or try drawing both of his balls in your mouth.
6. Use one hand to circle the top of the scrotum, and gently pull it down bringing the testicals together and place into your mouth.
7. Also lick his testicles as well most men love this
8. Use your hands on the penis as well in addition to licking and sucking, using firm strokes will heighten his pleasure
9. Take the penis as far as you want to. Then close your eyes and concentrate. If you are unused or nervous of how far you can take it try the following: Very slowly ease the penis in taking it a bit at a time, until it’s all in. By doing it slowly you will overcome the problem many women have and you will not gag.
10. Fellatio is not just about putting a penis in your mouth; you need to use your tongue to stimulate the head as well. Try alternating between sucking and licking with your tongue.

Of course, how you perform the above the order enthusiasm etc you put in will be reflected in the pleasure your partner receives. Keep in mind the following to give him a mind blowing orgasm

Be Uninhibited

Women exert considerable control over their partner’s aroused, erect penis and it is important to be uninhibited and enjoy fellatio.

While you can start slowly, the best way to satisfy your partner is to exert more pressure as you progress.

Really try and get into and concentrate on what you are doing, free your mind and you will provide a massive amount of pleasure.

Tease Him

Giving good fellatio is not just about using your mouth! Use your hands and also tease him with your responses as well.

Run your hands over his chest, legs and touch his behind, gently cup his testicles and fondle them. You can also run your hand up and down the penis shaft as you use your mouth to heighten the experience.

Make sure you show him you are enjoying it as well, by stimulating yourself, moaning and talking to him about the pleasure it’s giving you.

Bringing it to conclusion.

Once he’s fully aroused and heading towards what will be a satisfying orgasm, its time to bring things to a conclusion.

Use gentle but firm suction and use an up and down motion with your head to move him towards hopefully a mind blowing orgasm.

Fellatio. Keep in mind enthusiasm, variety and expectation, combined with practice, but its practice you will enjoy.

The Best Blow Job Book around is BLOW BY BLOW by Michael Webb, an Oprah featured award winning author of many sex books. This detailed blow job book will provide you with techniques that you would never be able to imagine. If you want to KNOW how to give your man the most pleasure possible buy this book.

For more information on Fellatio and other articles on impoving your sex life visit: http://www.net-planet.org/sexhealth.html

There are a LOT of articles out there on how to give a blow job. I’ve noticed that most of them are written by men! Now, you might think that a man is the most qualified person to teach blow job technique, but consider this: he’s just ONE man. He knows what HE likes, but how does he know what every other guy likes? He’s just one person!

Now consider the value of getting advice from a pro – a real pro, that is – a woman who has given blow jobs to hundreds and hundreds of men.

NOT a porn star or an actress who has learned how to fake her way through a blow job. But a woman who has spent countless hours perfecting blow job technique so that men all over the country pay significant sums of money to experience what she has to offer.

That’s worth quite a bit, don’t you think?

I wrote Blow Him Away: An Escort’s Guide to Giving Exceptional Head for just this reason. So that you could benefit from my years of experience and from the VAST VARIETY of my experience.

I know you will walk away feeling empowered with a new attitude, new skills, and a huge leg up on most other women out there (who most men agree do NOT know how to give a blow job).

It is extremely important that you do not underestimate the importance of giving head. The majority of my clients are married men, or otherwise involved in a committed relationship. They love their partners – I don’t doubt this. But their partners are either not giving them oral sex, or not giving them GOOD oral sex. Either way, they are seeking it outside of the relationship and it’s a shame knowing it doesn’t have to be this way.

The majority of men I see often comment to me that they have never received a really good blow job. Even if their partners are going down on them, they lack certain skills and know-how to make it a really great blow job. This is the reason most men will seek out a pro, or another girl, to satisfy their needs.

What follows is a brief summary of the main ingredients that go into giving a great blow job. In my book I go into much greater details of the techniques every woman should employ when giving head to her man and you can download the book here: http://www.blowjoblove.com

1) Attitude: Having the right attitude is true of everything in life: your job, your family, any challenge we come across in life. So why should giving a blow job be any different?

Attitude is one of the TOP 3 “musts” for giving a great blow job. Your man wants to feel that you love his penis as much as you love him, and that love spending time down there bringing him as much pleasure as you can.

2) Foreplay: Oral sex is the foreplay before sexual intercourse. But what about the build up before giving a blow job?

Men love that build up just as much as women do. They want to get all hot and bothered before the real action begins. Learn how to treat his body like a sexual playground BEFORE going down on him, and your blow job will be that much greater!

3) Technique: Unfortunately, this is where most women lack the knowledge and skills to really put their man over the edge and keep him coming back for more.

If you think a blow job means going up and down on your man’s penis until he cums, you are absolutely wrong. That’s what a boring blow job is and Boring Blow Job = Your Man Is Going Somewhere Else for a Great Blow Job.

4) The Male G-Spot If you didn’t know there was such a thing, you’re already behind a step!

Stimulating a man’s g-spot in the correct way can actually have him orgasming (without cumming) for hours and hours!

Imagine that…giving your man exquisite – endless – pleasure. Learning the male g-spot technique is the ticket to having him eating out of your hand.

5) Multi-Tasking: Giving great head involves utilizing several different skills all at once. Are you using your tongue, your lips, and your hands when you give a blow job? Are you using them all at once? It’s not difficult, it just takes practice.

Practice makes perfect and your man will be all too pleased to volunteer his member for the cause!

The Best Blow Job Book around is BLOW BY BLOW by Michael Webb, an Oprah featured award winning author of many sex books. This detailed blow job book will provide you with techniques that you would never be able to imagine. If you want to KNOW how to give your man the most pleasure possible buy this book.

If you want to learn the art of giving great head, just visit http://www.blowjoblove.com and download the 44 page e-book packed with tips, techniques, a step by step guide, and tasteful illustrations to help you give the ultimate blow job.

Fellatio is oral stimulation of the man’s penis. It involves the tongue and the mouth as whole. Kissing, licking and sucking are the main activities in this pleasurable activity. Many men get a hand on at the thought of a fellatio being performed on them. The feel of the mouth against the shaft is the fantasy of every man. The fellatio techniques applied determine the height of pleasures. You can easily pour cold water on a nice fellatio occasion by doing silly mistakes either knowingly or unknowingly. To make it a memorable moment, do the extra things we do not normally do and avoid doing the little things that irritate. I want to give some fellatio tips to help us to heighten the sexual ecstasy.

Among major fellatio tips is, while performing fellatio, be very careful not to bite the erect penis at the height of pleasurable arousal. This will cause undesirable pain after the act. Sometimes we don’t mean but it just happens. To avoid this, tuck your lips inside and around your teeth before you take the shaft inside your mouth. This is a safety tip to avoid careless biting. If you happen to repeatedly move up and down your mouth, you won’t like it. Soon you will feel an uncomfortable sensation caused by overstretching of the jaws. Worse still you might leave with a sore neck and jaw. Further movement of the penis towards the throat can cause a gag. All these are problems which can be avoided for best fellatio.

You might not be very comfortable with giving fellatio but if you will eventually do it do not talk negatively. Chances are if you keep mum, he will ejaculate fast and soon it will be your turn. Style up fellatio giver and use fellatio tips. Do not repeatedly stroke his manhood until he comes. He might not even get orgasm. Not all men ejaculate while fellatio is performed on them. Please, save yourself the agony and mix up the play. At some point, stop using your mouth and use the hand to stroke. This will definitely give time to relax. To prevent the penis from going too far, you can ask the fellatio receiver to hold the the base of the penis with one hand. This prevents the whole length from entering the mouth. If deep throating is of great interest to you, learn a way to control the gag reflex.

Fellatio tips such as cleanliness is common knowledge in all sexual encounters. Whether anal, vaginal or oral sex cleanliness is of key importance. To avoid irritation on the shaft, use lot of lubricants preferably flavored ones. To heighten erotism during fellatio, you can use whipped cream, honey or other food suit for the process. Fellatio is made more enjoyable if a little teasing is done. As part of foreplay you can tease his testicles but make sure it is in a gentle way. They might be too sensitive to accommodate more pressure. Keep looking at his scrotum as it shows how close he is to coming. The skin becomes tight and moves towards the body in preparation to ejaculation. After orgasm, it should not be the end to your fellatio. The penis becomes more sensitive and a little more stroking is not harmful.

The Best Blow Job Book around is BLOW BY BLOW by Michael Webb, an Oprah featured award winning author of many sex books. This detailed blow job book will provide you with techniques that you would never be able to imagine. If you want to KNOW how to give your man the most pleasure possible buy this book.